The way I practice magic, I don’t believe in love spells or binding spells or any kind of energy work intended to change a person’s mind or the natural way The Universe is rolling out its plan.
I believe magic is meant to enhance what The Universe already has in motion, to heal our human wounds and fears long enough to stop us from standing in our own way, so we can stand in the sunlight of the spirit and enjoy the life put in front of us.
Let’s take this spell for example: a personalized Full Moon spell I made for my dear friend’s Alyssa and Jenny’s wedding (or #Jelyssa as I like to call them). In essence, you could call this a ~ love or binding spell ~ but what it really does is facilitate a letting go of what isn’t serving either of them on a personal level, and makes space for things that foster healthy, loving connections between the two (neither of them said that they were struggling with these things, this is just something I’ve found useful in my own relationships and that I’ve seen be useful in the relationships of others).
Notice that this spell has NOTHING to do with either one of them having some kind of influence over the other - it’s all internal self healing stuff done in the each other’s presence, allowing them to bear witness to the other’s truth and making space to build the trust and connection.
You don’t need to force love - it’s either there or it isn’t (and omg is it EVER there for these two ). And a spell like this requires there to be a degree of trust in place already, as it does require a degree of vulnerability and safety... so whether it’s there or it’s not for you and whomever you choose to do something like this with, please know that you deserve relationships and partnership where this kind of thing is possible.
Hope everyone had a happy Full Moon! May you all find a connection where you feel you have the space, freedom and safety to let go of past fear, communicate honestly, work towards understanding and feel held and accepted in all the parts and pieces of who you are.
Kyle is Reiki Master, Social Worker, and self-taught Moon Witch. They do not follow any one set spiritual practice, and deliver their energy work and teachings from the principle of, “Do not harm, take no shit”.
Please contact Kyle directly HERE with questions or for more information on how you can commission your own personalized spell or healing sessions.